Hey! Girls, Women,Females
What's wrong with us girls giving all our goodies away before marriage?
It sure feels good and so what if that relationship doesn't work and you have to give the goodies away again and again? It will probably feel good again and again, at least for a fleeting moment, then the guilt comes, the hurt won't move in another direction...it only has eyes for you. I can tell you what's wrong with "goody giving" before marriage and commitment, God in His infinite wisdom didn't create us to do it that way and that is it, period. So, doing it any other way than the way He intended is the wrong way. It's not about feeling good, it's about obedience and relationship.
What's wrong with us girls giving all our goodies away before marriage?
It sure feels good and so what if that relationship doesn't work and you have to give the goodies away again and again? It will probably feel good again and again, at least for a fleeting moment, then the guilt comes, the hurt won't move in another direction...it only has eyes for you. I can tell you what's wrong with "goody giving" before marriage and commitment, God in His infinite wisdom didn't create us to do it that way and that is it, period. So, doing it any other way than the way He intended is the wrong way. It's not about feeling good, it's about obedience and relationship.
The next time the situation gets hot and heavy and you have no knot to tie, think about the consequence...that old devil consequence. Find the nearest extinguisher and Put That Fire Out!
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I think your blog is great, I pray more people will learn about it.
Blessings to you!
Who really understands why we exist and why our bodies function as they do? Some theologians have difficulty with this. So where do we find the meaning of life--the purpose of our individual lives? The answer to your question "What's wrong with girls...?" should probably begin with "Why do we (male and female)even have goodies to give?" If we have "goodies", they came from the Creator for all good things come from Him. James 1 helps us understand that the goodies came from God our Creator to be used to glorify Him in our obedience to His perfect plan--a plan NOT just to bring praise to Him, but also to help us avoid those painful human experiences of "substitute (replacement, reduced, alternate, settled for, artificial, unreal, stand-in) love" gone bad. His love NEVER fails but is the REAL DEAL. God provides instruction for avoiding moral sin and remedy for ignorance. We accept all of this by faith--belief in God. Then we move to KNOWING GOD--that's relationship. Then we move to LOVING GOD--that grows with experience of knowing Him. When you really have a love relationship with God the Father through accepting the sin payment of Jesus Christ Blood and invite His Holy Spirit to help you through this life, you want only to put a smile on HIS face. If he uses someone on this earth to channel His love through to you, then honor God by honoring that relationship. That experience is lasting and heavenly. When people settle for the worldly substitute based on "fleshly selfish feelings" they miss out on more than they know. Decisions made to please self above obedience to God always end in despair, hurt and failure. On the contrary decisions made based on pleasing the #1 Lover of all time, God Almighty, ALWAYS lead to joy unspeakable and successful living. WARNING!!! Never trust feelings. They lie--they tell you it's cold when it's really hot (called fever); or you're hungry an hour after eating Chinese. Trust the TRUTH of God's word. Just say "NO!" to anything that hurts your proven true love because He hurts when we don't reciprocate love. I'm sure you know what I'm talkin' bout!
Cheerful,
Wow, you had a lot to say and it was good.You need to be out there talking to the young "goody givers", schooling them on why we're made the way we are and maybe steer them in a positive direction. You've got a whole lotta wisdom to share. Even the old "goody givers" could take a listen. OPEN YOUR EARS and HEARTS PEOPLE!
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